Be a Rebel! Be HAPPY!

WHY IS LIFE IS SO HARD?!

Gaahhh… I’m SO fed up of being TOLD, HEARING and READING this! 

Who made these opinions gospel??!  Who gave them the power to dictate how easy or difficult YOUR life SHOULD be? 

I certainly didn’t!  Didn’t I?  Did you?  No?  Then why in the world should we expect life to be hard ALL THE TIME?!

It’s easy to believe this when there are plenty of negative nellies in the world that constantly reminding us that we are “wrong” or “bad” the second we think or act in a different way to THEIR LIMITED POINT OF VIEW! 

 

Do you remember when you were a child and life was easy?  Playing with a toy or outside in the mud (or whatever and wherever you played) and having so much fun! 

When did it all change? 

When were you first TOLD that you HAVE to work HARD to achieve success, approval, joy or happiness?

How many of you were told you MUST be ­­­____xxx____ to have ___yyy___ in your life?  (Feel free to fill in the blanks!) 

I remember being told as I a child that I MUST work HARD to be academically intelligent in order to be successful in life.  Now remember, this is just one point of view! 

The Law of Attraction says that you receive more of what you give your energy to, so if you choose believe in this point of view it is easy to understand why everything in life is always such a challenge.

 

My life used to be centred upon WORKING HARD to be successful in every aspect of life.  However, as you can imagine this was SO exhausting, demotivating and stressful!  You end up losing so much of yourself, your self-confidence, and self-worth.  Constantly doubting yourself, capabilities and abilities.  You might even be using these as motivators to drive you forward in life, because you HAVE to PROVE your worth.

 

Imagine if Walt Disney, Steve Jobs or Richard Branson bought into this point of view?!  What would life be like without the magical Disney resorts and movies? 

Imagine a world without IPhones, MacBooks or all the other APPLE gadgets!  What if the Virgin Empire never existed?

OMG!  Did your jaw drop in disbelief?!

What do all these famously successful people have in common? 

They all BELIEVE in their own abilities, dreams and visions!   Yes, they are also famous for being successful dyslexics, which just goes to show that just because you are DIFFERENTLY ABLED does not mean that you are doomed to FAILURE or HAVE to be limited in your SUCCESS! 

 

YOU CAN ACHIEVE ANYTHING WITH THE RIGHT MIND SET!

 

Please DO NOT believe the lies that you were once told!

There are people in the world who may relish in limiting your success, or even see you fail.  These people, may come across as confident, ‘successful’ or even happy! They may even seem to have it all; success, a great relationship, family, money, status… sound like someone you know?  Yup, thought so.

You might wonder, if they have it all, why would they want to see you fail or even care if you do? 

Because they are riddled with FEAR.  Wait, what?!   YES, it’s true! 

This mind set comes from a place of fear, where there is a lack of abundance in the world, there is never enough for everyone.  Not enough work, clients, jobs, money, significant other, the list goes on and on.

 

In truth, there is plenty for everyone, THE UNIVERSE IS ABUNDANT!  Just take look at nature. Every flower blossoms when it’s their time. Even the sun and moon shine when it’s their time.

All you need to do is to tap into the universe’s abundance.

When you get stuck in this limiting mind set, it may seem almost impossible to get out of it let alone tap into the universe’s abundance. 

So where could you start?

In order to shift your mind set into a more empowered one, you need to become aware on a conscious level the underlying root cause of the belief, understand how it limits you, learn how to make better choices and then start to shift your mind set. 

There are a number of ways of achieving this, including see a therapist or coach, read loads of self-development books or attend workshops, recite daily affirmations, have a vision board, the list goes on. 

 

However, these methods may not have worked for you or may have taken YEARS to make tiny shift in your life.  You may find yourself getting frustrated at the slow progress, or falling back into old habits or even recreating the same issues in other areas of your life. 

What if there was another way? 

What if you could shift into a mindset that allows you to grow, develop, become sucessful and achive your goals in a nurturing, kinder and more effective way?

What if you could break free from these old patterns and beliefs? 

What if you could completely transform your life and start living the life you’ve been dreaming of?

What if you could have this hppiness you have been waiting for now?

 

There IS another way!

 

A growth mindset is the key to unlocking the path to living your dream life.   

You may want to grab a pen and paper for this one.

Imagine a person you most admire and consider to be successful and happy.  Take a moment to identify the great qualities (NOT things!) they have that you would like to have in your life.  Make a note of these qualities.  Repeat this process until you have about 3 or 4 people in mind. 

What were the common qualities?

Well, most successful people often have a few things in common they:

1.       Have a positive mindset
2.      Confidence
3.      Truly believe in themselves and their dreams
4.      Open to possibilities
5.      Persistent
6.      Disciplined
7.      Take action

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